AM Scripture Reading: Philippians 2.1-4

This Morning’s Sermon:

Brent T. Willey

OUR FAMILY – OUR CHURCH

Introduction:

1. What does the word “family” mean to you?

2. A 34-year research study (1974-2008), conducted by two university professors, revealed six qualities of strong families:

   • Appreciation & Affection for Each Other

   • Valuing Each Other & Demonstrating Commitment

   • Ability to Deal With Crises in a Positive Manner

   • Time Together

   • Good Communication Patterns

   • Spiritual Well-Being

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3. Not surprisingly, the apostle Paul touches upon these principles in Philippians 2.1-4.

I. FOUNDATIONAL PRINCIPLES

1. “Spiritual Well-Being” was a common underlying principle found among the strong families, which is foundational!

2. Jesus is identified as the only proper foundation for our lives. (1 Cor. 3.11; cf., Matt. 7.24-27)

II. OUR FAMILY – OUR CHURCH

1. Five essential qualities for securing spiritual well-being:

   1. Effective Communication (Phil. 2.1-4; cf., Prov. 18.21; Prov. 21.23)

   2. Appreciation & Affection (Phil. 2.1; cf., Col. 3.18-21,14)

   3. Shared Valued Commitment (Phil. 2.2; cf., Psa. 133.1; 1 Pet. 3.8-11)

   4. Positive Conflict Resolution (Phil.2.3;cf.,Matt.7.24-27; Heb. 4.12; James 1.5; Prov. 15.33; James 4.6)

   5. Time Together (Phil. 2.4; cf., Matt. 6.33)

2.  We must see the connection between the family & the church!

   1. Paul used the two together as an analogy, paralleling Christ’s relationship to the church with a husband’s relationship to his wife, etc. (Eph. 5.22 – 6.9)

   2. The church is only as strong as the marriages and the families that make up the local congregation.

Conclusion: Our Family–Our Church…both vitally important!