AM Scripture Reading: James 3.2-12

This Morning’s Sermon:

Brent T. Willey

November 16, 2014

The Communication Formula

James 1.19-20

Introduction:

1. Better communication is something we as Christians should all desire. (Prov. 18.21; Matt. 12.37; James 3.1-12)
2. James offers an amazing communication formula: “So then, my beloved brethren; let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God” (James 1.19-20).
3. James employs two words commonly used for measuring speed.
   1. “Swift to hear” [Tachùs: “swift, prompt or ready” (1x).]
   2. “Slow to speak…slow to wrath” [Brachùs: “metaphoric, dull, inactive in mind” (3x; cf., Luke 24.25).]
4. These three instructions are measured responses…

“SWIFT TO HEAR”

1. “Listen!” Try to understand what the other is saying before making a response or even forming an opinion.
2. Good listening skills demonstrate wisdom.
   1. Elihu: the voice of reason (Job 33.1, 31-33; 34.16)
   2. Prov. 7.24: “Now therefore, listen to me, my children; pay attention to the words of my mouth.”

“SLOW TO SPEAK”

1. “Process!” Even if a reply is needed, take your time – think before engaging or speaking. What a contrast!
2. Again, wisdom carefully measures verbal responses…
   1. Proverbial wisdom (Prov. 29.20; cf., 14.33; 12.23; 29.11)
   2. Nehemiah prayed before answering the king. (Neh. 2.4-6)

“SLOW TO WRATH”

1. “Patience!” Anger usually breaks down communication and severely jeopardizes relationships.
2. Remember, “the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God” (James 1.20 – nasb).
   1. More proverbial wisdom. (Prov. 14.29; 15.18; 16.32)
   2. Resolve anger! (Eph. 4.26) [Orgízō: “exasperated”]

Conclusion: This is a formula we must all put into practice.